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THE QUR'ANIC MINDSET OF A
BELIEVER
Attitude towards family and friends
A believer gives thanks to Allah when he considers the creation
of his parents who have spent so much time and labour looking
after him over the years since he first opened his eyes to
this world. A person who lives according to the Qur'an will
always strive to be aware that Allah created his parents and
gave them His mercy and compassion and endowed them with love
for their children. Allah created a bond of love between parents
and the children whom they bring up from helpless infancy
until they are self-sufficient adults. In this bond of love,
parents never tire of the pleasure of nurturing their children
and seeing them grow. Allah stresses the importance of family
in human life:
We have instructed man concerning his parents.
Bearing him caused his mother great debility and the period
of his weaning was two years: "Give thanks to Me and to your
parents. I am your final destination." (Surah Luqman: 14)
Our Lord says in the Qur'an that we ought
to behave well towards our parents:
Say: "Come and I will recite to you what
your Lord has made unlawful for you": that you do not associate
anything with Him; that you are good to your parents… (Surat
al-An'am: 151)
We have instructed man to be good to his
parents … (Surat al-Ahqaf: 15)
So, according to these verses, a believer will show regard
for his parents and treat them with respect, nurture deep
love for them, treat them pleasantly and try to win over their
hearts with kind and wise words. Again in the Qur'an, Allah
shows us how we ought to be sensitive towards our parents:
Your Lord has decreed that you should worship none but Him,
and that you should show kindness to your parents. Whether
one or both of them reach old age with you, do not say "Ugh!"
to them out of irritation and do not be harsh with them but
speak to them with gentleness and generosity. (Surat al-Isra':
23)
In this verse, Allah gives us the measure of mercy to be
shown to parents. With the words "do not say 'Ugh!' to them
out of irritation and do not be harsh with them but speak
to them with gentleness", Allah has forbidden believers from
committing the least act of disrespect towards them or neglect
of them. For this reason, believers always act attentively
towards their parents and with great respect and tolerance.
They will do everything possible to make them comfortable
and will try not to be wanting in respect and attention. They
will keep in mind the difficulties and anxieties of old age
and will make every effort to supply their every need even
before they mention it with compassionate understanding. They
will do everything in their power to make sure they are comfortable
and not in want, either spiritually or materially. And, no
matter what happens, they will not stop regarding them with
deep respect.
There is another situation that believers may encounter in
their relationships with their parents. A person of faith
may have parents who have chosen the way of godlessness. In
the case of such a difference in faith, a believer will invite
them with the same polite and respectful attitude to follow
the right path. Ibrahim (as)'s words to his idol-worshipping
father show us the kind of approach we should use in such
circumstances:
Father, knowledge which never reached you has come to me,
so follow me and I will guide you to the right path. Father,
do not worship Shaytan. Shaytan was disobedient to the All-Merciful.
Father, I am afraid that a punishment from the All-Merciful
will afflict you, and turn you into a comrade of Shaytan.
(Surah Maryam: 43-44)
Again, when some individuals see their parents growing old
and losing their strength, they turn their backs on them when
they need help and attention. It is not hard to see that such
an attitude is widespread these days. We frequently encounter
old people, who are in a very bad situation materially and
spiritually, left to live in their houses alone. If we think
about this situation we will see that the reason for this
problem lies in not living according to the teachings of the
Qur'an.
Someone who accepts the Qur'an as his guide acts towards
his parents, other family members and everyone around him
with mercy and compassion. He will invite his relatives, friends
and other acquaintances to live according to the teachings
of the Qur'an, because Allah commands those with faith to
start telling those close to them about Islam:
Warn your near relatives. (Surat ash-Shu'ara': 214)
There is always happiness and joy in a family that lives
according to the teachings of the Qur'an as manifest in the
Sunnah of the Messenger, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace. The kind of shouting, arguments and disrespect we see
in some disintegrating families today could never happen in
a community of believers. In such a community, everyone takes
great pleasure in being with his family. Children treat their
parents with respect and love them with all their heart. Families
regard children as trusts from Allah and look after them.
When we say the word "family", warmth, love, security and
mutual support come to mind. But it is useful to point out
again that this excellent state can only be reached through
living faithfully and completely in Islam and through having
fear of and love for Allah.
Attitude towards blessings
Believers who put aside their habitual views and observe
their environment will understand that everything they perceive
is a blessing from Allah. They will understand that everything-eyes,
ears, body, all the food they eat, the clean air they breathe,
houses, goods and property, the things they own and even micro-organisms
and stars-have been put at their service. And these blessings
are too numerous to count. As our Lord says in the following
verse, it is not even possible to classify and count all these
blessings:
If you tried to number Allah's blessings, you could never
count them. Allah is Ever-Forgiving, Most Merciful. (Surat
an-Nahl: 18)
A believer can legitimately use all the blessings given to
him in this world but he will never be deceived by them and
so forget to live without thought for Allah, the afterlife
or the teachings of the Qur'an. No matter how many possessions
he has, prosperity, money, or power, etc., they will never
cause him to become decadent or arrogant; in short, they will
never lead him to abandon the teachings of the Qur'an. He
is aware that all of these things are blessings from Allah
and that if He wills, He can take them back again. He is always
aware that the blessings of this world are transitory and
limited, that they test him and that they are only reflections
of the real blessings of the Garden.
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For someone who lives according to the teachings of the Qur'an,
the blessings of this world such as property, possessions
and position are only means by which to draw near and give
thanks to Allah. For this reason, it is never his aim to possess
the blessings of this world, which he knows he will only enjoy
for a limited time. For example, one of the most enduring
blessings of which a person can make use in this life is a
house, but it benefits a person for a couple of decades of
his life at most. When his life in this world comes to an
end, he will go away and leave the house he loved, valued
and worked so hard to own throughout his life. There is no
doubt that death marks the definite separation between an
individual and his earthly blessings.
A believer knows that Allah is the real Owner of the blessings
given him and that they come only from Him. He does everything
he can to give thanks to our Lord Who created these blessings
and to show his appreciation and gratitude. In return for
His countless blessings, he will always make every effort
to give thanks by what he says and what he does, to recall
Allah's blessings and remember them and to speak of them to
others. Here are a few relevant verses:
Your Lord will soon give to you and you will be satisfied.
Did He not find you orphaned and shelter you? Did He not find
you wandering and guide you? Did He not find you impoverished
and enrich you? So as for orphans, do not oppress them, and
as for beggars, do not berate them. And as for the blessing
of your Lord, speak out! (Surat ad-Duha: 5-11)
Or are you astonished that a reminder should come to you
from your Lord by way of a man among you in order to warn
you? Remember when He appointed you successors to the people
of Nuh, and increased you greatly in stature. Remember Allah's
blessings, so that hopefully you will be successful. (Surat
al-A'raf: 69)
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Before some people give thanks, they wait for some special
blessing or for some big problem to be solved. But if they
thought for a moment, they would see that every moment of
a person's life is filled with blessings. Continually, at
every moment, countless blessings are given to us such as
life, health, intelligence, consciousness, the five senses,
and the air we breathe. And we should give thanks for every
one of these blessings separately. People who are careless
in their remembrance of Allah and recollection of the proofs
of His creation do not realise the value of their blessings
while they have them; they do not give thanks and they only
understand the value of these blessings when they are taken
from them.
But believers consider how helpless they are and how much
they need these blessings, and so they always thank Allah
for them. The believers don't only thank Allah for wealth,
property and possessions; but knowing that Allah is the Owner
of and Ruler over everything, they thank our Lord for their
health, good looks, knowledge, intelligence, for their love
of their faith and disgust for godlessness, for the fact that
they are on the right path, for their association with pure
believers, for their understanding, insight and perception,
and for their spiritual and physical strength. They immediately
give thanks to Allah when they see a beautiful view or when
they manage their work well, when they receive something they
wanted, hear a good word and witness acts of love and respect,
and other such blessings that are too many to mention. They
remember Him as the Compassionate and Merciful One.
If a believer shows in his acts of gratitude that the blessings
he has received will not make him greedy, arrogant or haughty,
Allah will give him even more blessings. This statement of
Allah in the Qur'an speaks of this:
And when your Lord announced: "If you are grateful, I will
certainly give you increase, but if you are ungrateful, My
punishment is severe." (Surah Ibrahim: 7)
At the same time, all blessings are a part of a human being's
worldly testing. For this reason, people of faith, in addition
to giving thanks, use the blessings given to them as much
as possible in doing good works; they don't want to be stingy
and hoard wealth. This is because collecting and hoarding
wealth is a characteristic of the people of the Fire. Our
Lord draws our attention to this in the Qur'an:
But no! It is a Raging Blaze stripping away the limbs and
scalp, which calls for all who drew back and turned away,
and amassed and hoarded up. Truly man was created headstrong,
desperate when bad things happen, begrudging when good things
come. (Surat al-Ma'arij: 15-21)
In response to the question as to what people should give
away, Allah recommends that one give from "whatever is surplus
to your needs." (Surat al-Baqara: 219) It is a requirement
of the teachings of the Qur'an that believers use a portion
of their earnings apart from their own needs for good works
as Allah directs. The legal minimum of that is the obligatory
zakat, which is collected by the ruler or community leader
for distribution to the poor and needy and those others Allah
mentions in the ayah about zakat. Giving beyond that is not
obligatory but highly recommended.
Certainly believers' thanksgiving for their blessings will
be to use the blessings Allah has given them to win His approval.
A believer is responsible for using what he has been given
in performing the good works that Allah has commanded. Along
with the material means that Allah has given him, a believer
uses his body to gain Allah's approval and to work in His
way and thereby hopes to win Allah's pleasure and mercy and
attain the never-ending blessings of the Garden:
Allah has bought from the believers their selves and their
wealth in return for the Garden… (Surat at-Tawba: 111)
A community of individuals living according to the teachings
of the Qur'an and the Sunnah of the Best of Creation, may
Allah bless him and grant him peace, will by their payment
of zakat and their voluntary acts of giving remove the violence,
strife, theft and other ugly criminal activities caused by
poverty, hunger, destitution and other such problems. In this
way and Allah willing, peace of mind and well-being will attain
their highest level.
Attitude towards beauty
Because wealth, splendour and beauty are characteristics
of the Garden, the imitations of them in this world remind
people of the Garden. That increases a believer's eagerness
and desire to attain it, but the disbelievers settle for it
in this life and show no interest in the afterlife.
Everything-endlessly flowing rivers, places of great scenic
beauty, gardens of dazzling colours, human beauty, aesthetic
compositions and amazing works of art-are all blessings and
a grace from Allah to humanity. In every one of these blessings
in this earthly life there is a hint of the creation of Allah.
A believer will regard all beauty in this world as the reflection
of an original, and as a model and announcement of good news:
Give the good news to those who believe and do right actions
that they will have Gardens with rivers flowing under them.
When they are given fruit there as provision, they will say,
"This is what we were given before." But they were only given
a simulation of it. They will have there spouses of perfect
purity and will remain there timelessly, for ever. (Surat
al-Baqara: 25)
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However much the blessings in the afterlife resemble those
in the world, they are superior to earthly blessings in their
reality and in being eternal. Allah has created a perfect
Garden endowed with numerous blessings. A person with the
values taught by the Qur'an will ponder the creation and excellence
of the Garden in everything he sees. When he looks at the
sky, he will think of "a Garden as wide as the heavens and
the earth" (Surah Al 'Imran: 133); when he sees beautiful
houses, he will think of "lofty chambers in the Garden, with
rivers flowing under them", (Surat al-'Ankabut: 58); when
he sees dazzling jewels, he will think of the adornments of
Garden "gold bracelets and pearls" (Surah Fatir: 33); when
he sees stylish and attractive clothing, he will think of
the clothing of the Garden made of "the finest silk and rich
brocade" (Surat al-Kahf: 31); when he tastes delicious food
and drink, he will think of the "rivers of water which will
never spoil and rivers of milk whose taste will never change
and rivers of wine, delightful to all who drink it, and rivers
of honey of undiluted purity" (Surah Muhammad: 15) in the
Garden; when he sees attractive gardens, he will think of
the Garden "of deep viridian green" (Surat ar-Rahman: 64);
when he sees attractive furniture, he will think of the "sumptuous
woven couches" (Surat al-Waqi'a:15) in the Garden.
The reason for this way of thinking is that all the beautiful
things in the world are for a person of faith the source of
great pleasure and occasion for gratitude, whether he possesses
any of them of not. At the same time, they are an important
source of pleasure that will increase his longing for the
Garden and his efforts to attain it.
A believer who lives according to the teachings of the Qur'an
will not be jealous or angry when he sees someone who is richer
or more attractive than him. For instance, unlike many people
he will not regret that he does not have a beautiful house
because one of the basic aims in a believer's life is to attain
not transient but eternal beauty; his real homeland is the
Garden. Allah draws our attention to this in the Qur'an:
Their Lord gives them the good news of His mercy and good
pleasure and Gardens where they will enjoy everlasting delight.
(Surat at-Tawba: 21)
Those who avoid the teachings of the Qur'an ignore the fact
that their real homeland is the Garden and so they are passionately
attached to the ephemeral pleasures of this world. Their basic
goals are: to be well spoken of, to be respectable and important
in their own right, to increase their material means and to
live a good life. Throughout their lives they are constantly
running after transient, unimportant and deceptive worldly
values. To see good things they do not possess only increases
their jealousy, greed and sadness. For example, they take
no pleasure in being in a beautiful house that does not belong
to them. Their minds are occupied with questions such as these:
"Why am I not this rich?" and "Why don't I have a beautiful
house like this?" For these people, the beautiful things in
this world are usually a source of irritation because in order
to take any pleasure from beautiful things, they think they
have to own them.
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However, those who live according to the teachings of the
Qur'an know how to appreciate beautiful things whether they
own them or not. For example, a person who has an awareness
of his faith may, as a part of his test from Allah in this
world, not be living in wealthy neighbourhoods, perhaps not
even having seen one. But he realises that there is a definite
reason for his situation. A believer knows that he does not
have to go to such places to see the beauties of Allah's creation.
With his special perception and understanding, a believer
will notice the incomparable beauties of Allah's in every
place and at every moment. The splendour of the stars at night
and the incomparable beauty, colour and design of a rose are
two examples that everyone can see and appreciate every day.
As we stated earlier, the longing that believers feel for
the Garden causes them to change their surroundings into places
that remind them of the Garden. Certainly, the Garden is a
place that is a work of art greater than anyone can imagine,
with perfect sights and beauties that no one on earth could
conceive. But a Muslim who lives according to the teachings
of the Qur'an will use all the means at his disposal to beautify
his surroundings. We learn from the Qur'an that Sulayman's
courtyard was paved with glass (Surat an-Naml:44) and his
house was decorated with high arches and statues, huge dishes
like cisterns and great built-in cooking vats. (Surah Saba':13)
In the Qur'an, Allah also says that the family of Ibrahim
(as) were given an immense kingdom (Surat an-Nisa':54).
With the high position, and sometimes great possessions
and power that they had been given, Allah's messengers used
all their blessings as Allah directed and according to His
will. For this reason, they are praised in the Qur'an. Believers
take all prophets as examples and take care-as the Awliya
(closer friends of Allah) also do-to use every blessing that
comes to them to please Allah.
Reaction to apparently negative happenings
Various difficulties can happen for a person throughout the
day. But no matter what difficulties he may encounter, a believer
puts himself in Allah's hands and thinks: "Allah tests us
in everything we do and think in this earthly life. This is
a very important fact that we must never lose sight of. So,
when we encounter difficulty in anything we do, or think that
things are not going well, we must never forget that our Lord
has put this difficulty in our path in order to test our reaction."
In the Qur'an, Allah says that every difficulty a person
meets comes from Him:
Say: "Nothing can happen to us except what Allah has ordained
for us. He is Our Master. It is in Allah that the believers
should put their trust." (Surat at-Tawba: 51)
Everything we encounter in our experience is decreed by Allah
and is beneficial for the believer in this world and the world
to come; this is clear to everyone who observes with faith
(For details, see Harun Yahya; Seeing
Good in All, Islamic Book Service, 2003). For example,
there is much benefit when a believer loses some possessions
he loved. Outwardly, this appears to be a misfortune but it
can be the means whereby a believer may see his mistakes,
increase his awareness and realise that he must take much
more precaution in some areas. Another beneficial side of
this kind of misfortune is that it reminds a person that he
does not own anything; that the owner of all things is Allah.
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This is valid for every thing, great and small, that happens
in the course of daily life. For example, as a result of a
misunderstanding or someone's neglect, a payment may be wrongly
made; a job on which someone has been struggling with a computer
for hours may be lost in one moment as the result of a power
failure; a young student may be sick and miss the university
entrance examinations for which he spent so much time preparing;
due to some bureaucratic transactions, a person may spend
days waiting in line; documents may never be completed, thus
causing a hitch; a person who has an urgent engagement somewhere
may miss his bus or plane…These are the kinds of events that
can happen in anyone's life and that appear to be difficult
setbacks.
But there is much beauty in these occurrences from the point
of view of someone with faith. Above all, a believer bears
in mind that Allah tests his conduct and his steadfastness,
that he will die and that it is a waste of time for him to
dwell on these difficulties since he is going to give an account
in the afterlife. He knows there is a silver lining to all
things that happen. He never loses heart but prays that Allah
will make his job easy and make everything turn out well.
And when relief comes after difficulty, he thanks Allah that
He has accepted and answered his prayer.
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A person who begins his day with this in mind will rarely
lose hope no matter what happens or become anxious, fearful
or feel desperate, and if he is momentarily forgetful, he
will again remember and turn to Allah. He knows that Allah
created these things for a good and beneficial purpose. And
he will not think this way only when something serious is
about to happen to him, but, as we said before, in everything
great or small that happens to him in daily life.
For example, think of a person who does not make the progress
he wants in an important undertaking; at the last minute,
just when he was about to complete it, he encounters a serious
problem. This person bursts out in anger, becomes anxious
and miserable and has other kinds of negative reaction. However,
someone who believes that there is good in everything will
try to find what Allah is showing him by this event. He may
think that Allah drew his attention to this in order for him
to take more precautions in this matter. He will take every
necessary precaution and he will thank Allah that he has probably
prevented even greater damage by this action.
If he misses the bus while on his way somewhere, he will
think that by being late or not getting on that bus, he may
have avoided an accident or other disaster. These are only a
few examples. He will think that there may be other hidden reasons
such as these. These examples can be multiplied many times in
a person's daily life. But the important thing is this: a person's
plans may not always turn out the way he wants. He may find
himself in a totally different environment than he had planned,
but that is beneficial for someone who puts himself in Allah's
hands and so he tries to find a divine purpose for everything
that happens to him. In the Qur'an, Allah reveals the following:
…It may be that you hate something when it is good for you
and it may be that you love something when it is bad for you.
Allah knows and you do not know. (Surat al-Baqara: 216)
As Allah says, we do not know what is beneficial or harmful;
but Allah knows. A person must make friends with and submit
to Allah, the Most Merciful and the All-Compassionate.
In this earthly life, a person can lose everything he owns
in a moment. He can lose his house in a fire, his investments
in an economic crisis or valuable possessions because of an
accident. Allah says in the Qur'an that people will undergo
this kind of testing:
We will test you with a certain amount of fear and hunger
and loss of wealth and life and crops. But give good news
to the steadfast. (Surat al-Baqara: 155)
Allah tells people that they will undergo various kinds of
tests and that they will receive a good reward for their steadfastness
in difficult circumstances. For example, a person loses something
he owns and cannot find it; the steadfastness that Allah describes
in the Qur'an is when a person puts himself completely in
Allah's hands and submits to His will from the moment he learns
that his possessions, whether large or small, have been lost.
He does not lose sight of the fact that Allah has made everything
and does not let his attitude or behaviour become unbalanced.
I have put my trust in Allah,
my Lord and your Lord. There is no
creature He does not hold by the forelock. My Lord
is on a straigh Path.
(Surah Hud:56)
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A person may suffer even worse losses in the course of a
day. For example if someone loses a source of income on which
he spent the greater part of his day in order to meet his
needs, that loss is serious for someone who believes that
his future depended on it. Many of the people have been brought
up from their childhoods with the idea of getting a good job.
They spend every moment of their lives wanting a better job
or advancement and promotion in the job they have. So, if
they lose their job, their days are filled with depression
and anxiety and their lives are, as they say, turned upside
down.
On the other hand, a believer knows that it is Allah Who
gives him his daily sustenance and that his sources of incomes
are for this purpose only. In other words, for a believer,
the blessings that Allah has given him are only a means. For
this reason, if a person of faith loses his source of income,
he will accept the fact with steadfastness and submission.
In such circumstances, he will be steadfast and pray and put
himself in Allah's hands. He never forgets that Allah gives
his daily sustenance and that He can take it away anytime
He wills.
A person who takes the Qur'an as a guide will immediately
take control of his thoughts and actions if he loses a source
of income, suffers harm, cannot study in the school of his
choice or similar circumstances. He will consider whether
of not his behaviour is pleasing to Allah and the following
thoughts may go through his mind:
- Was I thankful enough for the goods, property and possessions
I lost?
- Was I mean with or ungrateful for the blessings I was given?
- Did I forget Allah and the afterlife in being too attached
to my property and possessions?
- Was I haughty or arrogant because of my possessions and
did I distance myself from Allah's way and the teachings of
the Qur'an?
- Did I try to win the admiration of others instead of seeking
Allah's approval, or seek to satisfy my own wishes and desires?
A believer will give an honest and sincere answer to these
questions. According to these answers, he will try to correct
behaviour that is not pleasing to Allah and pray for Allah
to help him do this. He will approach Allah in all sincerity.
He will take refuge in Allah from all the wrong things he
has done out of forgetfulness or misconduct. In the Qur'an,
Allah describes the way those who believe pray:
…Our Lord, do not take us to task if we forget or make a
mistake! Our Lord, do not place on us a load like the one
You placed on those before us! Our Lord, do not place on us
a load we have not the strength to bear! And pardon us; and
forgive us; and have mercy on us. You are our Master… (Surat
al-Baqara: 286)
In being tested, a person can suffer many losses one after
the other. But a person with deep faith knows that there is
a reason for what he suffers. One of the most important of
these reasons is the spiritual training that comes with difficulty:
…Allah rewarded you with one distress in return for another
so you would not feel grief for what escaped you or what assailed
you. Allah is aware of what you do. (Surah Al 'Imran: 153)
Nothing occurs, either in the earth or in yourselves, without
its being in a Book before We make it happen. That is something
easy for Allah. That is so that you will not be grieved about
the things that pass you by or exult about the things that
come to you. Allah does not love any vain or boastful man.
(Surat al-Hadid: 22-23)
For a believer, the difficult situations that happen one
after another during the day are the means for him to remember
that he is in a place of testing to become closer to Allah,
to mature and to embrace the teachings of the Qur'an. He is
aware that Allah is training him in this way and preparing
him for the endless blessings of the life to come.
Attitude during sickness
A person aware of his faith will be steadfast and put himself
in Allah's hands whenever he is sick because he realises that
his illness is a test from Allah, just as he realised that
his health is a test from Allah. He realises that trials and
afflictions are tests from Allah just as are well-being and
prosperity and ease, and indeed the latter are probably more
serious and difficult tests. For this reason, no matter how
uncomfortable he is, he will be steadfast and continue to
pray in sincerity to Allah. He knows that it is Allah Who
created illness and thus it is Allah Who will give the cure.
In the Qur'an, Allah praises the steadfastness of a believer
during illness and lists it among the qualities of "true devoutness":
…Rather, those with true devoutness are those who believe
in Allah and the Last Day, the Angels, the Book and the Prophets,
and who, despite their love for it, give away their wealth
to their relatives and to orphans and the very poor, and to
travellers and beggars and to set slaves free, and who establish
prayer and pay zakat; those who honour their contracts when
they make them, and are steadfast in poverty and illness and
in battle. Those are the people who are true. They are the
people who have taqwa. (Surat al-Baqara: 177)
While being steadfast, the believer will also take the treatment
required to make him better. He will not be emotional or childish
to attract the attention of those around him. He will consciously
take the treatment and medicine recommended for his illness.
This behaviour will actually be a prayer to Allah. At the
same time and as a result of living according to the teachings
of the Qur'an, he prays constantly that Allah will help and
cure him. In the Qur'an, Allah gives Ayyub (as) as an example
of this attitude of faith:
And Ayyub when he called out to his Lord, "Great harm has
afflicted me and You are the Most Merciful of the merciful."
(Surat al-Anbiya': 83)
It must be said that all medicines taken are means towards a cure. If Allah
wills, He will make the treatment a means for healing. It is Allah Who creates
the medical means used in treatment-micro-organisms, animal and plant materials-used
in the composition of medicines. In short, it is only Allah Who creates the cure.
In the Qur'an, Allah draws our attention to this by what Ibrahim (as) says: "And
when I am ill, it is He Who heals me." (Surat ash-Shu'ara': 80)
However, members of a godless society immediately become
rebellious when they fall ill. They behave in a way quite
contrary to the reality of the decree when they say, "Why
has such a thing happened to me?" A person who thinks in this
way, could never possibly put himself in Allah's hands during
an illness or regard it as a benefit.
However, believers think about the reason for their illness
and regard it as a good opportunity to draw closer to Allah.
Once more they come to understand what a great blessing health
is and how helpless human beings are. Even an ordinary sickness
like the flu can put a person in bed. In this situation, no
matter how powerful, respected or wealthy one is, we are helpless
and must rest and take our medicine. Under these circumstances,
we recall how much we need Allah and our sickness is the means
for us to remember Allah's name and draw close to Him. And
for the believer, every illness is a warning that the world
is transient and death and the next world are close at hand.
Attitude displayed in adverse and distressing situations
From time to time, a person may find himself in uncomfortable
situations such as on a street corner piled with garbage,
in a foul-smelling kitchen or in narrow, dark, dank places.
For a believer, even dirty and distressing places have their
purpose in creation. These kinds of places remind the believer
of Hell and of the misery in that place whose filth surpasses
any to be found in this world. In the Qur'an, Allah reveals
that the Fire is a place of darkness, dirt and filth:
"It is indeed an evil lodging and abode." (Surat al-Furqan:
66)
And the Companions of the Left: what of the Companions of
the Left? Amid searing blasts and scalding water and the murk
of thick black smoke, providing no coolness and no pleasure.
(Surat al-Waqi'a: 41-44)
When they are flung into a narrow place in it, shackled together
in chains, they will cry out there for destruction. "Do not
cry out today for just one destruction, cry out for many destructions!"
(Surat al-Furqan: 13-14)
A person who remembers these verses will immediately pray
that the Lord will deliver him from the pains of the Fire
and will ask forgiveness for the things he has done wrong.
According to Allah's description in the Qur'an, the Fire
is a foul-smelling, constricted, noisy, dark, sooty, dank
smoky place. There are even more dangerous areas within it
and a scorching heat that penetrates the cells. The Fire has
the most disgusting food and drink. Garments are made of fire
and all its pains are uninterrupted. The Fire is a place where
the skin is burnt, a place from which people beg to be released
and where they even want to die to avoid the pain, although
they have already died and cannot die again. In some respects,
the Fire could be compared to the world as depicted in films
after a nuclear war. However, the darkness described in these
films cannot compare to the extreme filth and depressing environment
of the Fire. This is only a comparison and the Fire is much
worse and more terrible than the very worst place we could
imagine in this world.
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Places in this world that are constricted, dirty, dark and
hot are very trying for the human spirit. In the Fire, this
claustrophobic atmosphere is much worse. Those in this world
who had developed methods of protection from the heat will
be helpless in the Fire. It is hotter than the hottest desert,
more depressing and dirty than the darkest dankest cell. As
our Lord indicates in the Qur'an, the heat penetrates into
a person's smallest cells. For the wrongdoers there is no
protection or relief from the searing heat. Along with this,
in the Fire, the senses are much stronger than they are in
this world. In this world, most pains grow weaker after a
while, wounds heal and even scars from a very serious and
painful burn heal with time. A person feels the pangs of the
Fire continually and very painfully and this pain never ends,
unless Allah wills it to end.
In the following examples we can show another possible reflection
on filthy uncared for places: a place may be dirty because
of a person's forgetfulness or neglect. However, as soon as
the believer sees this filth, he realises just how merciful
Allah is towards him and how wrongly he has behaved in return;
he recognises that Allah has given him an ideal place in which
to live and that he is a guest in that place. Because of this,
he realises that he must protect every blessing given to him
meticulously and show his thanks to Allah in the work he does.
Otherwise, he will be acting in a way that does not earn Allah's
approval. A believer who is aware of this will immediately
understand where he went wrong and so turn to Allah; he will
do the cleaning that has to be done, make up for his mistakes
and not fall into the same error again.
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