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The hearts of women are very open to apprehensions. They are not like men. They are very thoughtful and they see great details. For that reason those blessed beings should be very attentively taken care of. For instance what could make her sad, what could make her uneasy, how her heart can be strengthened; these should all be thought of attentively.
While one is stating an opinion it should be done so with love, compassion, mercy and kindness. If you curse someone just because he cursed you, then you would be in an even weirder situation. That is not acceptable. The thing that should be done there is to set an example for them. A respectful, respectable, decent, balanced, stable manner that aims to win people over, one that would make the other one realize his own mistake should be adopted. What should be done to make the other party feel ashamed of what he did? You should adopt a very beautiful and noble attitude so that the others can take an example, so that they can envy you, so that they can like you, so that they feel the desire to be like you.
Being the headmost one in compassion, in mercy, in decency, in cleanliness, in being the one that wears the most beautiful attires, that eats the most beautiful food, that distributes the most, that is the most just, the one that applies social justice in the most perfect manner is the characteristic of a Muslim.
There are some young men who get into a battle of words with young girls. They try to embarrass and humiliate them. What would they gain by doing that? Lets say that you really embarrassed them, would that make you bigger? You would simply be humiliated yourself. If you humiliate a woman, you will be humiliated. That is a foolish move. You should instead present your love, your respect and your kindness.
Of course, a believer should be open to advice. A Muslim might make a mistake, there is nothing wrong with this but he should always pay heed to advice of others: In other words, a Muslim shouldn't be arrogant, disrespectful and snobbish, right? Even though he won't follow the advice, he should politely listen to it within the limits of the Qur'an and say, "I will try hard to do so."
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